Thursday 30 May 2013

ARE THERE REALLY NO JOBS?

Many undergraduates nurse the joy of graduating and being offered a job in an office, so they study hard to graduate with summer cum laude to make their dream come through. For some, they get theirs on a platter of gold while for others, the search is endless. Since the need for a white collar job continues to increase, what hope have our youths?

Sunday 26 May 2013

TRIBES AND PREJUDICES


One of Nigeria’s most celebrated writers and accomplished scholar that played a pivotal role in the growth of African literature, Professor Chinua Achebe, last year published his sad memoir of the Biafran war of 1967-1970, which led to the death of more than two million Nigerians. Upon publication, the book generated criticisms among Nigerians from the west.
Interestingly, Achebe and the Yoruba juggernaut, Wole Soyinka over the years with their mighty pens have tried to fight corruption, which has remained unaddressed in the country;this was why Achebe publicly declined several awards from the Nigerian government, one of which was an attempt to name him a Commander of the Federal Republic in 2004.

WHY PARTNERS ENGAGE IN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS 2



According to a psychologist, there are five different basic needs of men and women in relationships/marriage:
For men:
1.      Sexual fulfillment for the married, men can’t do without this one.
2.      Recreational companionship
3.      An attractive spouse/partner
4.      Domestic support
5.      Admiration and I include compliment
For women:
1.      Affection
2.      Conversation
3.      Honesty
4.      Financial support
5.      Family commitment and I include adoration.

WHAT ACADEMIC SUCCESS TRUELY IS

  Academic success means different thing to different people. For some, it's passing through school with acceptable grades, to some; it's coming out tops in an academic setting. In defining academic success, it is important to look at the two sides to the coin- importance of academic success and how to achieve academic success.

Thursday 23 May 2013

ILLEGAL ROUTES DISCOVERED IN NIGERIA



 I was shocked when I heard that the Federal Government had just discovered about 84 legitimate and legal routes through which people could come or go out of Nigeria, while about 1,497 illegal routes that entered the country were also been uncovered.

This could possibly explain the reason for the continuous increase in our population. Sometimes, when I see the Alamajaries, I wonder if they came into the country through the sea or were they actually given visas. These people flood into the country with their entire village even without the custom officers being aware. 

Though the government has moved into action to handle the situation but be careful, for those living close to the boundaries before they come from nowhere and hick jack your goats and fowls.  

MUST EVERYONE BE A SCHOLAR 2?

  children forced to become scholars
Sitting with her face resting between her legs, she was weeping profusely. Becky had failed another course and in all has bagged six Fs within two semesters. “What did I not do to make sure I pass this course?” on and on she went as she sniffed some phlegm back into her nose. She had managed to gain admission into school to the department her parents had always wanted her to be.
She has never liked school from childhood but her parents being career inclined pushed her in, noticing her nonchalance, they ensured she stayed back in school for extra moral lessons yet her brain couldn’t adjust.

A MOTHER, BUT CALLOUS AT HEART

the suspects and their children

What words do you think would be enough to say to this 23-year-old pregnant  Adaeze Mba who confessed that she had sold her unborn baby for N200,000, before its actual birth?.
The lady was also arrested for conniving with her husband to sell their neighbour’s four-year-old son for N400, 000.  She also said that she and her husband, Chibueze, had sold two other children for N700, 000.
The funniest part of the story was that in March 2013, she and her husband sold their neighbour’s son, whom she claimed was following her around in, they succeeded in selling him for N400, 000 and relocated to Calabar after the deal.
What level of poverty would make a right thinking mother to think up such a callous idea?
pls read and share.

Wednesday 22 May 2013

PLACES YOU SHOULD CONSIDER VISITING

There are places that exist here on earth that seems to make the world look extra-ordinary; maybe you will consider visiting such places

Tunnel of Love, Ukraine

WHY PARTNERS ENGAGE IN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS

Couples at loggerhead
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He/she is a cheat!
I can’t believe he/she could do such a thing!
I trusted him/her!
After all I have done to make her/him happy!
He/she promised not to break my heart!
On and on you go, weeping and ranting into the ears of all who care to listen. Yet you don’t care to know “why” he or she broke the promise.

SHOULD THERE BE PRIVACY IN A TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP?


It’s important to understand that there is a difference between “privacy” and “secrecy”. Every relationship should be built on trust and to achieve this, there is need to trust and trust comes by open communication from both partners. Without trust, there is no respect and without respect, there is no intimacy.
As long as two people have made up their minds to be committed to each other, love and care for one another, there should be room for privacy but not secrecy.
You might wonder: “how will one partner have privacy and not be secretive”?

Welcome to Rhozzy's blog: MUST EVERYONE BE A SCHOLAR 1?

Welcome to Rhozzy's blog: MUST EVERYONE BE A SCHOLAR 1?: T his is a question that wanders through my mind more often; it keeps me pondering every moment I see people struggling with the ...

AMAZING PERSONALITIES

Ben Underworldtaught
THE BLIND LOCOMOTION NAVIGATOR
Ben Underwoodtaught is blind; both of his eyes were removed (cancer) when he was 3. Yet, he plays basketball, rides on a bicycle, and lives a quite normal life. He taught himself to use echo location to navigate around the world. CAN YOU EXPLAIN THAT?

MEET THE RICHEST MAN ON EARTH

Carlos Slim Helu
In 2012, the richest man on earth award was won by Carlos Slim Helu, a Mexican born in 1940. He earns his $69 billion through communications, technology, finance, retailing, and through his position as chairman and Chief Executive of a mobile phone carrier named America Movil and a telecommunications company called Telmex.
Despite philanthropic efforts, Slim has been criticized for his wealth, as Mexico has a high poverty rate. It is thought that Telmex has monopolised the landline telecommunications market.

NOW THAT THINGS HAVE FALLEN APART

Achebe's remains at the Airport

In a world where things keep falling apart virtually every day as a result of varied reasons that range from politics to social, economic and cultural factors,one cannot but surrender when death calls and the grave yard still remains the richest place to visit.
The burial of the literary icon Prof. Chinua Achebe, who died at the 82 year old in United States on March 21, 2013 was scheduled to take place on Thursday been May 23, 2013 in Ogidi a community in Anambra state, still sends no special feeling in the air.

Tuesday 21 May 2013

MUST EVERYONE BE A SCHOLAR 1?


This is a question that wanders through my mind more often; it keeps me pondering every moment I see people struggling with the ability to read and write words which they seem to use every day of their lives and understand little about. 
   
Sometime ago, I was opportune to see an Indian movie titled “Like Stars on Earth” the pain I saw in the heart of eight year old  Ishan; who couldn’t read nor write made tears run freely down my cheek. I wept till my head began to ache. The little boy was repeatedly beaten and humiliated by his father and teachers for not being able to read and write like his brother and peers. Due to negligence, they were unable to notice that all the letters he saw on papers and the blackboard were dancing right in front of him; he couldn’t explain what he was going through neither did his family and so-called teachers understood.